After reading this first portion
of Roberts’ book, I definitely questioned how the foster care system and social
services functions. Based on the stereotypes that surround black families that
are depicted in movies and TV shows along with the reality of those situations,
it is clear that her statement on page 6, “If you came [to dependency courts]
with no preconceptions about the purpose of the child welfare system, you would
have to conclude that it is an institution designed to monitor, regulate, and
punish poor black families.,” is in fact true. She supports this statement
using facts about the incredibly high number of black children removed from
their homes, in foster care, and those who never are reunited with their
biological families despite the great lengths their families go to get their
children back.
One of the statistics that
surprised me was that in Illinois, where 19% of the child population is black, 75%
of the children in foster care are black (p. 8). Similar statistics were shared
for larger cities and states which show that this is not occurring in just one
place but all over the United States. All of the statistics and stories that
Roberts’ shared supported her statement that black families are not treated the
same as other families. Black children are more likely to be removed from their
families in general, are more likely to be removed instead of receiving
supporting help for the problems that are seen, they spend more time in foster
care and are more likely to get stuck in the foster care system – neither being
reunited with their family or being adopted, and the services that they do
receive are usually inferior to those that other children in social services
receive.
One particular story that
intrigued me was Jornell’s story. She did what she believed to be best and
sought out help to be a good mother. She started a program to help her stay
healthy and to be a good mother for her new baby, David, but because of her
background, the hospital and social services questioned many of her decisions. Even
when she did everything that was asked of her (and often times much more), she
did not get her son back after they took him away. She proved again and again
that she was clean and healthy, was able to provide for her child and that she
loved him and wanted him back yet they still refused to see any of the progress
she had made and the steps she had taken to prove herself (pp. 3-6).
It seems that no matter how many
parents try to prove to social services that they are good parents and the
number of times they prove it, they are ignored, mistreated and treated as a
lesser class. The discrimination that has been present for so many years still
has not gone away. And because of this, the cycle continues; remove children
from their home into foster care where they stay in unstable and sometimes
unloving homes until their 18 and then kick them out with little preparation to
be adults, parents, or functioning citizens. When Jornell questioned when she
was getting David back, she stated that one of the reasons was because she did
not want him to end up in jail like over half of foster children do (p. 6). That
cycle will continue until someone actually does something about it and instead
of the institution monitoring, regulating and punishing poor black families,
they instead educate, assist and guide these families to be the best for the
children and society so that this cycle ends.
-- Lindsey E.
BLOG POST REPLY #10
ReplyDeleteLindsey, I very much agree with everything you have discussed in your blog post. Similarly, the story of Jornell shocked me. To me, it seemed she tried her very best to better her situation. She joined health programs, worked compliantly and showed her love for her child. Yet, something just wasn’t working. It is scary that an institution intended to help families can indeed tear them apart. Lindsey also mentions in her blog post that something should change within our social services to help these families. This is similar to our discussion in class today. Brenda (I believe) discussed that maybe paying for someone to help her clean the house or repair household things that need to be fixed would have aided her family more than removing the kids. As I briefly mentioned in class, one of my good friends was in foster care as a child. Her mother was suffering from severe depression and social services deemed her not able to take care of her children. Yet, maybe if she would have had daycare available or household care help things would have been different. I think that prosing these ideas of social service reform are important if we want to continue helping the children in foster care. Most importantly, leveling the playing field for the impoverished. As unfortunately, poverty and the downside of foster care seem to be disproportionally hurting the black community.
Blog post reply #10
ReplyDeleteLindsey,
I completely agree with your statement that there needs to be something done to end the cyclical pattern that you described. After reading your blog post it occurred to me that even though racism and racial separation has gotten better since the civil rights movement, it still exists in areas such as the foster care system. Black families are oppressed in this system and they are not afforded the rights that they deserve. Furthermore, they do not receive the help and resources that would keep their children in the home. Rather, the children are simply removed. If money was allocated towards providing essential services and resources, fewer children would have to be removed from their home. They’d be able to stay with their family and in their normal environment which would lead to less emotional and psychological distress for the child. This and several other facts that Robert’s presented makes me question whether foster care placement, is in the best interest of the child. Children have extreme love and devotion to their parents. They place their parents on pedestals and are, in most cases, unable to see their parents or their parent’s actions as bad. Tearing a child away from someone they love and admire is so damaging that it makes me question the foster cares system’s intentions in removing children from their homes.
Isabel Porter