We found many things interesting and problematic. One aspect that was surprising to find out after reading the first chapter in Adoption Nation, was the cost of adoption. "[families]...take out bank loans to pay the $20,000 to $40,000 it typically takes to adopted a baby in this country or a child from abroad."It was also interesting to learn about the history of adoption. For example adoption was only approved in England in 1926. We thought that is was shocking to find that it had taken so long for the process to become legal, and it lead us to wonder how adoption had been carried out before the ruling.
We also began to wonder whether or not adoption, to some degree, adoption could be seen as a status symbol. Recently many celebrities have gained attention by publicizing their adoptions. The cost of adoption could potentially make adoption a status symbol. With the cost being upwards of $40,000, it could definitely be seen as a limiting factor for many families.
The language used to describe both people who are adopted, as well as the parents of adopted children was particularly interesting to us. Not everyone knows someone who is adopted, but we can all control how we speak to others with respect to adoption. Knowing that one's words on the subject could greatly affect someone with close ties to adoption, we have realized the importance of educating oneself on the correct language is important in approaching this topic.
As we examined the issues facing adoption, the enormous potential juxtaposed to its mounting problems and pressures, we became keenly aware of the progress that can be made. We are studying an issue that contains both an ideal and a present reality. We are truly diving into what seems like Apples and Oranges.
I suspect you're right--that some people view adoption as a status symbol. What is clearer to me, though, is with a price tag of 20,000-40,000 for international adoptions, this is a way to build a family for those who are fairly privileged.
ReplyDeleteThe language issue is interesting, important, and complicated--as the language that is viewed as respectful by one party to adoption may be seen as disrespectful to another party to adoption. So: how does/can one satisfy the divergent interests/needs of everyone involved in adoption?? I hope we'll explore that question this semester.
We also thought that the amount of money spent on adoption was astronomical. Even though this amount is so steep, many parents would make the same decision again because the joy of their child is greater than any financial strain. Although, we do agree, that this may cause a burden for some families who do not have these funds available. This could limit the amount of willing adoptive parents from adopting a child. But on the other hand, it would make sure that each family has enough funds to support the child and have thoroughly weighed the pros and cons of their decision.
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